Dr. Jen Gunter, a Canadian gynecologist, opened up about her experience with this very situation. Click next to read more to read about how she reacted.
Dr. Jen Gunter says that she has experienced this sort of treatment. She alleges that these comments are not just rude–they are abusive. She has written a lot about her experiences with a rude partner.
Dr. Jen wrote, “I once dated a guy who insinuated my vagina did not smell right. He was an ass in other ways too, but I just didn’t see it until he impugned my vagina.”
She went on, “For example, he thought my hair would be better if it were straight. Sadly I took the bait; it wasn’t. He thought I would look better if I dressed a certain way. Again I took the bait. I just felt worse. When it came around to telling me how my vagina could be better it finally clicked that this is a form of control that men often use.” Y’all, if your partner is this controlling, you need to get rid of him ASAP.